Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Facts of Life....



Africa is a difficult place to live.  This may be the understatement of the year.  The sheer act of existing in a village here leaves no time or energy for possibilities of ‘getting ahead’.  

Even if access to clean water exists for a village, it still means making multiple trips a day and usually waiting in line to fill your gerry can (interesting tidbit on these below).  If no clean water source is near, miles must be walked to bring back as much as possible, a fire built and water boiled over the fire before consuming, which means gathering more firewood.   Getting water is often a job for the children.  It is not an uncommon sight to see a child Lila’s age and size carrying a large gerry can.  And they are quite heavy when filled.  

With no refrigeration, indoor plumbing or other ‘luxuries’, meals (or rather MEAL for most) must be picked or purchased and prepared each day.  There are few vegetable or meat options because of spoilage and cost, so most survive on a diet of starches.   Herding cattle back and forth to pastures can be a full days’ journey.  
With few or no changes of clothes, things must be washed by hand, usually requiring a trip to the nearest water source to be scrubbed in dirty water by hand and hung to dry, something that happens infrequently as there is usually nothing else to put on while laundering the clothes on one’s back.  


Dirt roads filled with potholes make travel very difficult, so unless a village is located within walking distance to a larger trading center, getting supplies, food, medical care and education can be extremely difficult.   Many times villages do not even have dirt roads and have to go through fields to even reach the nearest dirt road.  Below is a photo of one such village we visited.  I have yet to figure out how anyone can even find these villages to assist them.


Despite the circumstances, smiles seem to come easily to Ugandans.  Children run out if they hear a car and a simple wave seems to make their day.  We stopped and passed out ‘sweeties’ (aka dum dum lollipops and plastic eggs filled with jelly beans, compliments of Ms. Leila at Lila’s school) during Easter weekend to many of these children, and had to show most how to unwrap them and warn them not to eat the sticks.  They were simply precious and so excited to receive such a treat.  



The children here are incredibly well behaved.  When we stopped at a place Auntie Rox has visited before to pass out clothing, toothbrushes and sweeties, the children bowed and thanked us.  One young girl received a pair of shorts and a tshirt (quite possibly the only new outfit she had ever had) only to offer them to another who arrived after we had passed out everything.  The other girl took her choice of one item and both girls left happy.   I couldn’t help but think how this same situation would have probably ended up quite differently at my own home and in my own country.   The little girl in the right photo literally dropped to her knees when I gave her underwear, shoes and a toothbrush.  




















We came to serve the people of Uganda, and very much plan to continue to do that, but are seeing that they actually have much to offer us, too.   Our own children are realizing this as well.  During our de-brief over breakfast this morning, Brayden eloquently stated that it seems easier to share when you only have a little and having a lot can sometimes  cause people to become selfish.   WOW!  We are so incredibly proud of the way all of our kids have adjusted to all of the changes around them.  We know that God is working in their hearts as much as our own and are amazed at the profound thoughts and comments they are having.   We are so grateful they have the opportunity to see how much of the rest of the world lives at such young ages, and trust that the things they are being exposed to will impact them for the rest of their lives - much as they will our own. 



Okay - that’s enough philosophical writing for the day.  On the gerry (jerry) can.....during WWII the Germans used these [usually] yellow plastic jugs to carry fuel and tied them  on their tanks.  People called the Germans ‘Gerrys”.....thus the eventual adoption of the term used for the containers they carry their water in.   These jugs typically carry 5 gallons of liquid.  Try lifting 5 1-gallon jugs of milk at once to have an idea of the load the people (children!) are carrying for water!


And I’m not sure who is having more fun with the constant games of football - Rob or the kids!  Why do Americans call football soccer, anyway?! 



Seriously, we are all having an amazing time and are so thankful for all of you who are following our journey and praying for us.  Thanks so much to everyone who made donations for our trip.  The children could not be happier to receive all of the items you were so generous in giving.  We are still working on the coordination of our well and hope to have more to report on that after some meetings next week.  Blessings to everyone in America from Africa! 

2 comments:

  1. We are thrilled to hear of all of your heart warming experiences. I've tried to post several times and have not yet had luck, so hopefully this will work and if so, I'll post more next time. Blessings to all of you who's lives have been touched by your experience and to those who's lives you are touching with your kindness, generosity and love. We love you, Laur, Dave, Jayden and Kelsey

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  2. Thanks for the reminders about how "easy" we have it in the US. We really do take our basics for granted. Blessings to you guys. Still praying!

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